From Tuesday, July 1, 2008

I had a moment today. In the midst of a busy and slightly stressful day, I actually took time to do something meaningful. This is a bit embarrassing to admit, but yes even as a youth pastor I battle the tension between the time crunch and prayer. Today was one of those days…like so many others in my office: answering countless emails, making phone calls, planning events, meeting deadlines and “running a ministry.” (more…)

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Today is Valentine’s Day. As you know, Valentine’s Day is all about love and a naked, chubby angel armed with arrows (Cupid). Funny, isn’t it? I can’t help but think of a better definition of love than what I heard from my friend Jeff. In regards to God, Jeff often says, “that we are loved and valued by God.” Think about that…not only does God love us (often, we are undeserving of His love) but he VALUES us as well. To get a better picture of this, read Genesis chapter 1. As you read the story of how the Earth was created, you will notice a common theme: God’s creations got better and more complex as creation went on. We see light being created, then land, water, birds& fish, animals…then all of heaven gasped as God created His finest and most complex creation — humanity. The creation account clearly tells us that we were created in the image of God and are therefore set apart…and better than any of his other creations. We were the climax…the best…the image-bearers of God. Without a doubt, we’re seen as valued. No where else did God mention His image…except with our creation. Throughout history and Scripture, we see other examples of God’s value and love for humanity. God is desperately in love with humanity and does whatever it takes to rescue us from slavery and separation from Him. This is best seen in the person of Jesus Christ.

Dan, what does all of this have to do with Valentine’s Day? The story of creation tells us of the love and value God has for us. If I truly love and value another human being then I will love them simply for who they are and not try to recreate them. For example, if I truly love my wife (which I do), I will recognize that she is created in the image of God…just as He wanted her to look, gifted with the talents He chose for her, interested in the things she interested in, and I will try not to change her…or make her alter her looks, gifts, talents, interest etc for me. I will also love her simply for being her…without any strings attached or expectation of anything in return. Like, if I truly love and value my wife, a practical way for me to show her love would be to give her a good back rub without expecting her to return the favor (this is hard for me because I love back rubs…for me :) ). I just would show her that I love and value her as she is…not for what she does for me. Take some time today and reflect on the love of God. He loves and values you just as you are…He created you that way and calls you to love others the same way. Check out a special prayer that focuses on God’s love — “The Jesus Creed.”

Think about the measure of a man or a woman. For the most part, how we evaluate how someone has arrived at “womanhood” or “manhood” is pretty messed up. For example, men are often taught that you’re a real man if you are tough, demand respect, strong and make a lot of money. What if the measurement of a woman or man had nothing to do with how many fights you can win, or what you look like, or what clothes you wear, or what kind of car you drive? Something I have learned recently is that the true measure of a person is how they can begin and maintain MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS. Shouldn’t that be the measurement of humanity? Think about your relationships? Are there relationships that you need to begin? end? repair? God created us to exist in community…and community is all about relationships. Make your relationships part of your prayer this week. After all beginning and maintaining meaningful relationships will make us all become better friends, students, spouses, parents and employees!